The Dating Cycle
Marriage is an institution established by God and there are principles that guarantee successful and happy marriages. These principles are stated in God’s manual (the manufacturer’s manual) for Marriage, which is the Bible.
The primary focus of the dating cycle is guiding people into successful relationships. The dating cycle is for folks searching for mature, long-lasting, fulfilling and mutually beneficial relationships that lead to successful marriages.
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The dating cycle starts at the FRIENDSHIPS stage which we call the station and ends with the FRIENDSHIP stage which is the other side of the FRIENDSHIPS station. In between FRIENDSHIPS and FRIENDSHIP there are four stops. These are DATING, COURTSHIP (Going steady) ENGAGEMENT and MARRIAGE.
The dating cycle is like a Train that takes off at the FRIENDSHIPS station, makes stops at the Dating, Courtship, Engagement and marriage stages before getting back to the other side of the FRIENDSHIPS station, which is FRIENDSHIP.
Each stage in the cycle has principles governing them. Let me explain something about principles. A principle is a general or fundamental law underlying the workings of a thing. Principles are constant in the face of change. You can’t break principles. Principles break you.
The principles governing the dating cycle are universal. It doesn’t matter if you are black or white or yellow or whatever! The principles are independent of culture, race or creed! If you learn and follow the principles, you will succeed in your love life. If you are ignorant of the principles or if you choose to ignore them, you will fail in your love life.
One wonderful thing about the dating cycle is that it’s not just for folks starting out in the dating game. It’s also for those already dating, those in courtship, those already engaged and married folks.
No matter what stage you are in the dating cycle, maybe you’re dating or you’re married, if you will sincerely, with an open mind, learn and apply the requisite principles for that stage to your relationship, you are guaranteed a successful and fulfilling love life.
It’s important to note that your success at one stage of the dating cycle almost always guarantees your success in the next stage. For example, success at the FRIENDSHIP station almost always guarantees success at the DATING stage.
If you are in a relationship, we advice that you go through the circle with your partner. If your partner can’t be bothered, well, that sure tell you a thing or two about where you are headed! You may need to re-evaluate your relationship. It is obviously dysfunctional.
In case you think you are too busy to go through the dating cycle, and you can’t find the time or resources, well, what you need to do is to ask yourself, which is cheaper? Time and resources to go through the dating cycle or a broken heart?
By the way, what’s the cost of a broken heart?
Let’s help you compute it. Add disappointments to broken promises, add some tears, some sorrow, extra marital affairs, an unhappy marriage, a separation, a divorce or two, single parenthood, dysfunctional children—
You get the idea. Be sure to enroll for the courses!