Q & A – Courtship
Question:
How long would courtship last?
Answer:
Hi,
Courtship should take as long as you need to feel that you have found the ideal partner to get married to. This can take an average of eighteen moths depending on the people involved. I do not advocate short or long courtships as both have a lot of disadvantages
Q & A – Courtship
Question:
It is advisable for either party to end a relationship that has been for say 2 years. Who should call off a relationship, the male or female and on what basis? Thank you.
Answer:
Hi,
The purpose of having a relationship is to know if your partner can make a happy home in future. If you believe someone is not right for you, the number of years that you have been in the relationship is irrelevant. It is better to break a relationship than break a marriage.
Any of the two who is not sure about the chance of a happy marriage in future can break the relationship.
Q & A – Courtship
question:
what are d likely challenges a man might face during courtship, although am still searching ,ie still looking 4 a right choice but av got a lot of female friends.
answer:
Hi,
The most important challenge you will face in courtship is that of knowing if your partner is the right person to get married to. I’m happy that you have a lot of female friends. Get to know them and if you think there is one you really like, (not just because she is beautiful) i.e you know some things about her that appeal to you and you’d like to know her more, ask her out on a date and take it from there. If she’s for you, you’ll know and if she’s not for you, say goodbye and move on!
Don’t get into sex. If you do, you’ll get confused and you really won’t get to know each other!
Goodluck and sorry for getting back to you late.
Q & A – Courtship
question:
I have been friends with this guy and then we later got attracted an we’ve dated and now we’re courting and we’ve promised each other Marriage. How do u think we shld go about it. He’s 30 and am 22 the right age but am not ready until its 4-5yrs time cos of my schooling. What do u think?
answer:
Hi,
I don’t advise long courtships because a lot can go wrong. The guy is about ripe for marriage and you have to discuss to be really sure that he can wait for you.
I agree that your school is important. You can hold on if both of you are really determined but don’t get into sex before marriage. That will destroy everything.
Q & A – Courtship
Question:
how do one handle a long distant relationship
Answer:
Hi, Having a relationship with someone far away is tough but it can be handled. You need to write letters, talk on the phone, send e-mails or chat on datingcycle.com chat room! Be sure to know how the person feels about you. If either of you meets someone else and you lose interest in the far away guy, good luck.
Q & A – Courtship
Question
I watched your proramme on the 3 december 2004, You were talking about going out with a friend and i have a friend that i love so much and i told her that i love her but she says that no because we are friends but i try to convince her but she says that until we come to chat with you.
Answer:
Hi,
Don’t be in a hurry to get involved in a relationship. If this girl wants to be just a friend, be patient. Show her that you care and try to get to know her better. If she’s meant for you, things will happen naturally.
If things don’t go further, you’ll fall in love with someone else, I guarantee you
Q & A – Courtship
Question:
There’s this guy I’m going out with but i can’t trust him b’cos he’s unfaithful
Answer:
Hi,
If a guy is not faithful when you are in courtship, (not dating) get rid of him. He wont be faithful if you get married to him. There is someone better waiting for you