True love? (Part 2)
NB: You may want to read the first part of this article before you continue here.
Lust takes! Oh yes, Lust will take and keep taking from you until you have nothing left to give!
When someone wants to see you all the time, whether or not its convenient for you, when someone expects you to always give money or presents, even if you have to steal the money, well that aren’t True love, baby!
When someone wants sex before marriage and they tell you that if you don’t put out then they’ll cut you out, sweetheart, that’s not Love! Read more
True love? (Part 1)
When you’re been dating for a while, I mean when you’re been seeing the same guy for a while, the question “How do I know if he really loves me?” is bound to come up somewhere down the road.
“He loves me, he loves me not”
For most people who are serious about dating, there is an expected end.
Marriage. Read more
Will you marry me? (2)
YOU NEED TO READ PART 1 OF THIS ARTICLE BEFORE YOU READ THIS!
I knew he wouldn’t understand me even before I started speaking. I wasn’t surprised. My mistake was that I didn’t let Paul realize who I was early enough in our relationship. He knew I was Born Again, make no mistake about that, but he obviously thought I was just another religious girl who loved attending church and religious events.
I told him I was not into sex before marriage about a week after we started dating.
Initially, he didn’t believe me but when he saw my resolve and I threatened to break up the relationship if he wanted sex to be a part of us, he fell in line. Read more
Will you marry me? (1)
It was as if time stopped for about the five or so minutes it took me to answer Paul. My head was yelling ‘Yes, Yes, Yes’ but deep within my heart, I felt nothing but sadness.
Paul went down on one knee and held my hand ever so lightly as he slipped a beautiful engagement ring on my finger. I could see the Diamond glittering in the morning sun. Read more
7 Ways to Celebrate Christmas!
It’s Christmas again! Time does fly doesn’t it? It’s a wonderful year for me and I sure hope you’ve had a great year too.
So, how do you plan to spend your Christmas? Here are a few ideas for guys dating or courting.
1. Go to church (if you are a Christian) after all, what we are celebrating is the birth of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. After the service, go home to your family, have a nice lunch, call your heartthrob on the phone and sing a few carols to her (make sure your Carols are the short ones or you’ll be starting the new year in debt!) Read more
Love? I Think Not!
One of my younger friends came to see me the other day. Sitting with a glass of freshly squeezed Orange juice, she looked lovely in her navy blue stripped suit. I could tell that she was in very high spirits as we chatted for a while. I didn’t have to wonder for long about her joyful disposition. A call came in on her handset and I saw her face literally light up as she took the call.
‘Hello, Sweet-heart’
‘No I’m with a friend’
‘Yes, darling’
‘I love you too’ Read more
No sparks at all?
Sited at the back of the Bus, Sheila was completely oblivious of her immediate surroundings. It was 7:00pm in the evening but the Sun was still up! It was summer and everyone wanted to take in as much sun as they could. Shoppers milled in and out of shops along the crowded street wearing flimsy clothing of various degrees.
‘Excuse me’
Standing beside Stella, was an old lady who wanted to get into the seat beside Sheila. Sheila didn’t take any notice until the old Lady gently tapped her shoulder. Read more
Where did I go wrong?
Angela stood examining her husband’s shirt for close to two minutes. She wasn’t mistaken. The red stains were lipstick stains! She sniffed at the shirt. Strange perfume!
She dropped the shirt on the Laundry pile and sank into the dirty pile. She felt so weak, she just had to sit down!
Soon, lying on the clothes, completely oblivious of her environment, gentle tears ran down her pretty face wetting the clothes with stains no washing powder could ever erase from her memory.
This had to be the end of three years of heart break and pain. Read more
10 Facts about Casual Sex!
Casual sex is sex without any strings attached or, at least, that’s what most people think it is. But is it rally possible to get sexually involved with no consequences whatsoever? Well here’ are ten facts about casual sex to help you decide!
1. Casual Sex is never free. Someone always ends up paying.
2. There is nothing like safe sex. Being safe means absolutely no risks. With casual
sex, you may reduce the risks but you cannot eliminate them totally. Read more
8 Bad Ways to End a Relationship!
How do you end a Love relationship? There are good and bad ways and here are a few “bad” ways. You may consider any of these if there is someone in your life right now that you need to drop like a hot potato!
1. Call your partner on the phone and say it’s all over, don’t give any explanations. Ignore the desperate calls that are sure to follow. Don’t you dare take those calls!
2. Write a letter saying it’s over without giving any explanations, send the letter and then, get out of town!
3. Package all the cards, letters, gifts, flowers that you’ve ever received from your partner and have it all delivered back to them. No explanations! Read more