Love me my own way!
Adolf looked at me in utter bewilderment. He opened his mouth to speak twice but no words came! He was, as they say, flabbergasted!
His wife on the other hand was quite calm. She fixed her gaze on a spot on the ceiling and tapped a finger on the arm of her chair rhythmically!
I knew I had to calm Adolf down. He was German and he was quite upset, to put it mildly.
‘I still think this is something that can be sorted out’, I offered.
Adolf continued to stare at me, his wife shrugged. Read more
10 Top Reasons why wives cheat!
Why do wives cheat? There are lots of reasons but contrary to what many believe, sex is not the top reason why wives cheat. More often than not, wives begin with emotional affairs which could turn sexual!
Here is a look at ten top reasons why wives cheat. Read more
Let’s send ‘em all to mars!!
I could see from my table that the sad looking fellow seated opposite me at the Hotel Bar was on his fifth drink! I had no intention of monitoring him but by the time the waiter approached him thrice in twenty minutes, I sort of took an interest.
He was a tall fellow, bespectacled and perhaps a college Professor. He had on black trousers, a pink shirt and a brown jacket. His tie was loose around his neck and his hair needed some attention. Read more
Married to a stranger (2)
(You may want to read the first part of this article for a better understanding)
Funke was quiet for a while.
‘Let me be honest’, she began finally ‘I sort of noticed that things seemed a bit cold between you and your husband a few weeks after we came back to Nigeria. I was concerned but I didn’t want to pry’.
Laide gave a harsh laugh, ‘Things are frozen, not cold. It all started about two years ago when the kids got into college. All of a sudden there we were, with all the time in the world, no kids to talk to or play with or get distracted by. We got rather quiet! It was then I began to realize that we really didn’t have much in common’. Read more
Married to a stranger (1)
Laide sat quietly as her friend drove towards the office. Funke was her friend of twenty years but they had become neighbours just six months ago. Funke and her husband had been in the United States on transfer for five years and had recently returned to Nigeria. She needed to talk with her friend but she didn’t seem to know how to start.
‘How is Biola doing in High School?’ Funke broke the silence ‘I hardly see her whenever she comes home’ Read more
When a man won’t be a man!
Margaret stared at the stack of Bills before her with frustration. How in the world was she going to get money to pay? Hearing the sound of Tom’s car in the drive way, she dragged herself from the kitchen table and headed fro the family room. It was about 8pm and she was tired. She collapsed on the sofa, her mind in turmoil.
She really should have known better than to marry Tom. From their days of courtship she had always been the one paying the bills. Tom insisted he wanted to own his own business even though it was apparent he wasn’t making a success out of it. He said he couldn’t be an employee anymore! Read more
10 facts about marriage!
The rate of divorce in the world is now said to hover around 70%! It’s not a big surprise that young people are no longer excited about getting married and in developed countries, people are finding alternatives to marriage!
One of the reasons why the marriage institution is upside down is because there are a lot of myths about marriage and when you believe a myth, you are living in a dream world and sooner or later, you are going to wake up!
Here then are ten facts about marriage! I hope these will straighten some folks out! Read more
A strange affair indeed!
Larry King live today, 12TH October 2004 was about a Teacher who went to jail because she had sex with a 13 year old, a minor! The interview was already half way before I tuned in and even though I didn’t have the time, I sat amazed at what I was watching.
The incident happened in the Washington area and the lady went to jail for seven years and six months! I sat still as this blonde; about forty years of age (I didn’t catch her age) narrated her story in answer to Larry’s questions. Read more
Memories!
As I rummaged through an old suitcase filled with odds and ends the other day, I came across an old photograph of a girl I hadn’t seen in ages. There it was, almost covered with dust amidst some Birthday Cards and love notes from my past.
I wiped away some of the dust with my fingers and gazed upon those beautiful brown eyes. Read more
The evil that men do (2)
NB: You may want to read part 1 of this article to be able to follow on here!
Eventually, I left for home without having to face Anne. Mercifully, there were no more surprises that day.
The next day was a bit calmer. By now the security men at the gate were a bit more alert and they asked tons of questions before they allowed anyone into the premises. It was most inconvenient but what else could we do under the circumstances? Read more