Wait, even if it takes forever!

It was about 7pm and the sun had gone down earlier than usual.  It was summer, but already dark but my thoughts were darker than the night!

Sitting by me on the white sandy beach of the Atlantic Ocean was Ruth, one of my most favourite people in the world. We were both quiet as we stared ahead into the sea of nothingness before us.  The lights of some Boats flashed in the distance as stars danced over the waters of the Atlantic. Read more

7 most dangerous women!!!

All the Single guys, this is for you. But, why not?  I guess single ladies can read along as well!

7 most dangerous women!!!

There are of a lot of pretty young (and sometimes not so young) ladies out there if you’re looking to have a great relationship that will hopefully develop into settling down eventually. Er, but watch out lads, the dating scene is a jungle and you’ve got to keep your eyes peeled so you don’t become someone’s meat! Here’s our list of women to avoid! Read more

Love; Grandpa’s way!

“Love is not a feeling, it is a duty”

I looked at Grandpa as he sat, his feet on a cushion, peering at Sade and I from behind his thick bifocals, his false teeth gleaming in the bright morning light. He really didn’t look his 91 years! He looked more like 70 in his sparkling royal blue Guinea Brocade!

My wife, Sade and I had come on a visit to Grandpa Smith, my mother’s Uncle, because he asked us to see him unfailingly. Sade and I were having some trouble getting along after two years of marriage and trust my mother; she had rushed to Grandpa Smith telling him I was contemplating divorce! Read more

How to find love!

Just how do you find love?  I’ve heard it said that you CAN’T find love! All you have to do is wait and when the time is right (pray, just when is this?) it will find you! Well, there are folks out there who have been waiting forever and they are still waiting! Love just hasn’t shown up!

I’ve also heard it said that you have to go all out to find love!  But just where do you find love? There are a lot of folks out there who have been all over looking for love and they are still looking! The just haven’t found love!

So how do you find love?  There are many ways and for those who are ready  for love, here are just a few tips I’m sure you’ve never considered! Read more

7 Reasons Why Relationships Break Up!

Why do relationships break up?

There are as many reasons as there are relationships!

But you don’t have to wait for the tears, the heartbreaks and the broken promises. There are actually symptoms which tell you that your relationship is not doing too well and if care is not taken, it will soon be history.

Here are 7 symptoms of “sick” relationships:- Read more

5 ways to speak in love!

The book filled with words of wisdom in the Bible says life and death are in the power of the tongue. Unknown to many, the words you speak to your partner go a long way to determine if your relationship or marriage lives or dies! If you are having problems in your relationship, you need to pay close attention to the following. It may very well hold the key to your happiness! Read more

7 laws of getting the right spouse!

7 FUNDAMENTAL LAWS OF THE DATING CYCLE!

Folks often ask how they can make a success of the process of meeting someone, knowing that the person is the right one and going ahead to get married.

We have listed here, this Valentine season, what we consider to be guidelines or laws that can help you successfully navigate the minefield that love relationships have become! Read more

Love across the ocean?

These days, with the world becoming a global village, more and more lovers are finding their sweethearts having to go across oceans to study or just to better their lot in life, so to speak.

Also, with Internet dating becoming a fad, there are also quite a few folks now finding love in other continents!

One of the frequent questions that come in from Members and Visitors to the datingcycle.com website is how safe long distance love relationships are. Many people wonder if they do work out. Read more

Confessions of a ladies man!!

We thought we should share this with you guys. Enjoy!

datingcycle Team.

Girls tell me I look like a Greek God and I guess they are right! I’m six feet two inches tall, dark skinned and reasonably well built. I’m told I’m good looking. On my left cheek I have this scar, the result of a street fight some years back. It’s a long scar but it’s just barely visible.  Ladies tell me it makes me look rugged and for some reasons I can’t comprehend, many ladies seem to like rugged, but refined looking fellows, whatever that means! Read more

Can he really change?

Dorothy sat with her hands supporting her head. Her average features wore a troubled look. She stared straight ahead oblivious of her immediate environment. The tube stopped at the King’s Cross Station but she didn’t notice. The door slid open and then closed again. Dorothy’s mind was on Donald. Read more